6 months ago it was my dream and ultimate goal to score a job in the Emergency Room at my hospital. Key word being
was…
The process of transferring to the ED (Emergency Department) was easy enough. A lot easier than I thought it would be, considering my monster of a manger (see earlier post). I expected Ursula to make leaving the floor the worst and ugliest battle of my life. Instead, she made it unbelievably easy. Too easy.
The entire process of moving down to the ED took less than a week…application online, calls from Human Resources, interview with ED management, the whole shebang. I didn't even have a chance to tell my coworkers on the floor that I would be leaving them for a new job. I was offered a position in the ED, accepted immediately, and was not even given one last day on the floor to bid my goodbyes. Everybody assumes that transferring to another department is a process. My transfer was not a process. It was an opportunity for Ursula to get rid of me without having to fire me. She wanted me gone.
So there I was…bittersweet about leaving the floor, but so ready for a change of pace. I mean, working in the ER is the dream, right?! That’s what I had been telling myself from the day I started hating working on the floor under Ursula’s menacing glare.
I couldn't have been more excited. After all, I wanted to see some real life Grey’s Anatomy stuff go down! I wanted to do CPR, I wanted to see gun shot wounds, I wanted to save lives! I wanted something fast paced and challenging. I was tired of wiping butts and helping people to the bathroom. I was ready for a crazy awesome job that produced crazy awesome stories to tell.
So here I am…about 2 ½ months into my ER career…and I hate it. Despise it. Want to spit on it. This place is nothing like I thought it would be. I believe I am guilty of watching too many medical dramas on TV and falling in love with that lifestyle they portray…so glamorous, so important, so life changing. FALSE. It’s blasphemous I tell you! Z, if you are reading this, you were right. Damn, that did not taste good coming out of my mouth.
Yes, I wanted something fast paced, different every day, challenging, but I just feel so overwhelmed and so underwhelmed all at once. I am missing the comfort of knowing what my day will look like, missing the structure of doing certain tasks at certain times of the day. I am missing getting to know my patients, developing relationships with them, building trust. In the ER, your patients may be here only a couple of hours, they’re in and out. Sometimes I don’t even know what patients are in my rooms. The pace of the department is so crazy, I don’t have time to stop and really know who my patients are. I hate this. The reason I wanted to get into nursing in the first place has been kicked to the ground and trampled on. Who are my patients? I have no idea.
I feel like compassion is missing in the ER. Don’t get me wrong, everyone is nice enough, for the most part. My coworkers seem to enjoy their jobs, they seem to enjoy taking care of their patients. It’s just different. There aren't as many smiles, there aren't as many laughs. Maybe it’s a different kind of compassion…more of the intense, I must save your life right this instant and then you can go home so I can help the next person in line kind of compassion. On the floor, your patients might stay a couple of days, maybe weeks, maybe months, it tends to be more of a let me comfort you when you’re at your weakest, you can cry on my shoulder, tell me your life story, let me read the newspaper to you, let me sit by your side while you eat kind of compassion. Out of the two types of compassion I just described, I have figured out that I am more in love with the latter.
When I worked on the floor, even if it was the most exhausting, disgusting, must shower as soon as I get home kind of day, I never had any trouble feeling good about what I had accomplished during my shift. It could have been something as small as making a particularly difficult patient smile for half a second, or having a patient say they feel like a new person after their bath, or having a patient introduce you to their family member as if you are their best friend, or having a really meaningful talk with a coworker while sipping coffee...I could go on and on. Because all of these little things add up to one big thing...I love what I do.
In the ER, I find myself dreading work and having an extremely poor attitude towards my new job. I don't feel good about what I do anymore. During my shifts, I find myself thinking, "what am I doing here? I hate this." Yes, there are the occasional rewarding moments when I feel like I truly helped a very sick person. But more often than not, the people that come into the ER really have no business there. And instead of having compassion for them, I find myself getting angry with them. Not outwardly angry, I just bottle it up. And it doesn't feel good.
I know there are a million different fields of nursing I could go into, I just don't know what is right for me yet. I do know that this place will not be the ER.
Yours truly,
Frustrated and discouraged FutureRN